A vibrator is a good thing that's actually good for you. Yes, it's true -- I'm not just giving you an excuse to buy one. The Berman Center conducted a study of vibrator use among women, and the findings were resoundingly positive.

More women have dabbled in vibrators than you may think: 44 percent of women have vibrator experience. It's not just the singles either! Nearly 60 percent of women in relationships reported vibrator experience, while just over a third of single women did.

Whether the woman was single or married, old or young, vibrator use was associated with better sexual function. Women who used a vibrator, either in the past or currently. had more sexual interest and desire; better arousal; easier and more frequent orgasms; and less pain during and after sex. In addition, better sexual function was linked to higher levels of sexual satisfaction and even enhanced quality of life. It doesn't get much better than that!

The study showed that vibrators are nothing to be afraid of -- women said they did not become dependent on a vibrator once they started using one. A vibrator was never viewed as a replacement for a partner. If anything, a vibrator has a valuable place during partner sex, since two-thirds of partner were found to be supportive of vibrator use. More then anything, women reported they were driven to try a vibrator because of curiosity. So are you curious yet?

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Think about the minutes or moments as you work up to your orgasm. Do you breathe deep or do you hold your breath in anticipation of your orgasm?

Many people, when they are about to orgasm, naturally hold their breath. But what we do not realize is that an orgasm, for a person of any gender, is a series of muscular contractions in your pelvis. Whenever you are working to get the optimal use of your muscles, like if you are lifting weights or doing yoga, you will consciously breathe in and breathe out to get more oxygen into your blood stream - and ultimately into your muscles. This is exactly what you need to do when you are getting sexually excited. Start breathing in large breaths. Fill up your lungs. It may feel a bit forced at first but soon becomes rhythmic and natural. Beyond fueling your muscles, the sound of your breath is an obvious sign to your partner that you are really enjoying yourself and in the moment. The great think about this QUICK TIP? It's simple and the results are immediate! This little technique will bring better orgasms for you and your lover tonight!

If you are looking to take your partner over the edge, listen to their breath. Are they breathing heavy? Are they holding their breath? In a sexy voice you can coax them with “Breathe for me… I want to hear your breath…” Those words are so sexy.

Domestic violence thrives on our silence. If domestic violence has not touched your life or someone you love, it certainly touches someone in your neighborhood, in your gym, in your grocery store or in your place of worship. By simply admitting the realities of home/partner violence and shining our lights upon the problem, it becomes easier for survivors to recognize they are not alone and to reach out for help. I will never stop using my voice to shine a light on this fact. AND I AM ONE BRIGHT SHINY LIGHT. You too have power to shine light on violence. By simply talking about domestic violence you can help other people live the luxury of a life without violence. Here is some fuel for your light: www.ndvh.org

DID I HIT A NERVE?
Are you being abused? www.ndvh.org/help/abuse_quiz-help.html
Are you abusing your partner? www.ndvh.org/help/abuser_quiz-help.html
Are you the friend or family member of someone who is being abused? www.ndvh.org/help/fandf.html

My business is dedicated to self-care and sexual wellness. If you would like to have more positive sexual energy in your life and relationship, just give me call! Please feel free to forward this information & these links to your friends and family.

When you get home from work tonight, give your bedroom a sexy makeover! Take just 20 minutes to clear out the clutter. Make sure your bedroom is a peaceful place, free of excess books, magazine, nail clippers and junk. Put your clothes away, so the focus is your beautiful bed and not the chaos of day-to-day life. Put fresh sheets on the bed. Arrange some new lighting options, like a bedside lamp rather than overhead lighting. Put pillar candles in tall vases or jars so they can create ambiance and not be a fire hazard. And finally have your safer sex supplies, lube and toys in a clean container where it easy to access and ready to use!

Need some help in finding some of these options to spice up the bedroom? Why not try one of our Lockable Vibrator Cases or one of our Caress Me Candles?
Our Caress Me Candles don't burn hot so you can have the fantasy of using candle wax during your love making but the wax turns into a warming massage oil that softens your skin.

Our Lockable Vibrator Cases make for a great hiding spot for your sex supplies while still taking on a sleek look.

To find these products on my website please visit http://www.foryourpleasure.net/30282 and click on shop online and enter their names in the search box at the bottom and click search! And as always if you would like to learn more about hosting a party or becoming a consultant with For Your Pleasure please visit http://www.bringhomethepassion.com

It sounds funny but "Pleasure Your Mate" Month is an actually national observance. And, if you ask me, a pretty worthy one too. Pleasure can be so fleeting in our fast paced lives. The stress of day-to-day living (kids, work, school, home) can sometimes dull our pleasure senses. It becomes easy to forget the little things that bring us happiness. Which only causes more stress and anxiety in our lives. September is your month to tap into not only what brings you pleasure, but what brings pleasure to your mate as well. And, in turn, brings pleasure to you - creating a self-perpetuating cycle of good things. Draw your partner a bubble bath. Give them a massage. Do the dishes. Cook food or order in their favorite meal. Buy them their favorite chocolate. Go for a walk together. Pack their favorite lunch for them to take to work. Wrap them in a soft blanket while they are watching TV on the couch. Get a babysitter to take the kids to a movie or the park for a few hours so the two of you can have some time alone together. If your mate is smart, they will take your lead and give that pleasure right back to you. These tiny acts of generosity will only serve to fuel your relationship.

At For Your Pleasure we carry all the romantic massage and bath products you mean to put this into action! What are you waiting for? http://www.bringhomethepassion.com or shop directly online at http://www.foryourpleasure.net/30282

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And that means parties are going to be booming! Summer is always a traditionally quiet time of the year as far as business is concerned with vacations, wedding, picnics and all the fun things that people like to do while the weather is nice!

I'm looking forward to Deer Widow season and all of the parties that I'm going to have scheduled coming up as well as all of the new people wanting to start a business.

In the month of September For Your Pleasure is offering their start up kits at 1/2 off so people can start their own business for a lot cheaper this month and that's always a benefit.

I'm anxious for school to start so I can get back to a normal routine and not here mommy he hit me 500 times a day!

I hope that everyone had a wonderful Labor Day weekend and school starts off with a bang for all of you with little ones!

Julie

Here is what you can earn for the month of September if you host a party with Bring Home The Passion Parties in Association with For Your Pleasure, Inc.